I drove Steph to her doctor's office and to physical therapy today -- her knee is coming along nicely and she's walking pretty well on it now -- she just had surgery last Friday!
I spent 3 hours in the yard yesterday afternoon -- I can see my tomatoes again, along with the peppers and beans I planted -- amazing what a little hoeing and weed pulling will do. Also got part of one daylily bed weeded before my back and my knees gave out. I hope to get some more done tomorrow. This is two years worth of weeds I'm getting rid of -- I sure didn't get anything done last summer. I feel like I've survived the worst part of losing Bill now (although I know I will miss him for the rest of my life); I feel like I can make decisions for myself now and get some things done that I couldn't handle last year. I have to say I was blessed with a husband that was a great teacher and I actually paid attention even when I didn't think it mattered; so I learned how to do a lot of things even though I never had to do any of them when he was here.
A little advice for all you wives out there: Pay attention. Talk about your finances so you know what's what; learn how to mow the yard, even if you don't have to do it; learn where your electrical breaker panel is and how it works; learn how to change the furnace filter; find out where your water shut-off valves are (we have one on every toilet and faucet in the house); do you have a septic system that needs pumping? Do you have your fireplaces cleaned regularly? What about maintenance on your car? Even if you can afford to have someone else do the work -- it still is important for you to know enough to tell them what to do.
3 comments :
Sounds like you're taking some big steps forward! Good for you!Love your top. Isn't great to get some UFOs done??
Have missed your blog postings. Good to see you blogging again. Great advice.
I've been a regular lurker and I'm glad you're back to blogging. The little quilt top looks great.
You are so right about paying attention to the necessary tasks that we let our other halves take care of. There are definitely areas that I need to pay more attention to, especially with the car. Thanks for the advice.
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